The feelings you have towards another is only a reflection of your feelings for yourself.
Don't take on names that put you in boxes of narrow mindedness. Take no name, step inside no box. Step outside of all boxes and be open minded to any possibility. Be free from any name, any box.
Hate sucks; it steals our humanity and turns good people into bad. Nothing living is dirt and nothing living should ever be treated like dirt, spoken to as if dirt or talked about as if it was dirt. All that is alive is special, only dirt is dirt.